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Sometimes, even if you
have a regular and active sex life, it is a lot of fun to talk dirty to
your partner over the phone. Whether you talk about what you did last
night, what you want to do to her this weekend (or what you want her to do
to you) or whether you just weave a fantasy, talking on the phone has an
entirely different sexual dynamic than talking in person. If you or your
girlfriend is shy, you also might find it easier to find your sexual
tongue on the phone than face to face. Even people who live together find
talking about sex on the phone feels totally different than talking
together in person.
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A lunchtime call from
the office can lead to a "quickie" over the phone to make the rest of
the day go by a little faster. And for most people, telling their
deepest sexual fantasies comes much more easily when they cannot see
the person they are talking to. That is probably the reason so many
dollars are spent on commercial phone sex. The difference here is that
you are telling a person you care about, and that can make your
fantasies come to life. Talking on the phone often somehow feels more
intimate than talking in person. It also leaves one hand free if you
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find that all that talk
makes you want to masturbate. You can tell your fantasy in a present tense
as if you were describing something that was happening at that minute. "I
am taking off your bra. Your nipples stand up as I suck on them". That
way, your partner can take over from time to time "It feels wonderful when
you suck on them. Don't stop".
By sharing your fantasies
on the phone, you can weave amazing fantasies that include things you
would have trouble doing in person, or that you wouldn't really want to do
but like the idea of. Also if you or your girlfriend have fantasies about
being other people - a pirate and his captive maiden or a rich woman and
the gardener - it's sometimes easier to do it on the phone. You and your
wife or girlfriend can also weave fantasies from which you can take your
next encounter together. You can learn a little more about what each of
you like and dislike sexually, and which are the best parts, and next time
you can do those more. This is also a wonderful way to spend your nights
when you're out of town. A romantic phone call to say "I miss you" can
become an amazing sexual encounter that will keep both of you tingling all
the next day.
If your lover is unsure,
but is open to listening, the first time you try this she may mostly
listen. If you feel awkward, you can start slow with things that you like
about her, and what your favourite things are that she does to you. This
won't take as much creative thought, and won't feel as risky as telling a
deep-seated fantasy. Or you can talk about the first time you had sex
together. What it felt like, how good it was. Once again, this is not as
sexual as you would probably like to get, but starting slow might be more
comfortable.
Phone sex with your
partner can give whole new dimensions to your sexual feelings for each
other, and make being apart a lot more fun.
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